Baby Mama Or Wifey?

Me and one of my really good friends Antwanara were having a serious conversation about this; is it better to be a wife or a baby mama? On the surface most people would say wife; but really what all comes with the title of being a MRS. Let's say you marry someone who is loaded (athlete, actor, drug dealer lol) 95% of the time they will ask you to sign a prenup, which most will gladly sign. I'm not one of those women, now I'm not a gold digger, I'm smart. Why would i sign something that guarantees me nothing if you cheat on me and we divorce.  PRENUPS are sticky and i hope I'm never in the situation where I have  to sign one; because i wont.

Ok now look at the baby mama's situation; for the next 18 years she will be getting some type of child support. If you decide to marry and you do get divorced you will get alimony if you request it, but that has a limit. Men are supposed to pay their child support , and if they don't you can always have them arrested. so far, the baby mama is winning. The baby mother has so much power, if you really think about it. She can still be with the father, but she knows that if they break up, she will still be taken care of. Ok look at Lil Wayne, he has like 4 0r 5 baby mama's and they are all well taken care of. He only married one, but it didn't work out because he is Lil Wayne. Don't get it twisted, not everything is about money and being taken care of . A women should be able to go out, and get it on her own.

But what about the average girl, who doesn't have a super rich baby daddy like Lil Wayne?  I believe that the wifey option is best. Whenever you go out, you will see a young mother with a child or two, who is riding the bus or just struggling. The option of being wifey probably never presented itself, who are we to blame her for being an idiot for getting knocked with a no good trifling motherfucker's baby, or the dead beat baby daddy? I never wanna be in that situation, so if yer man isn't financially stable, don't marry him or have his babies JUST RUn AS FAST AS YOU CAN. Once you are in the cycle of having a child with someone who is unstable, it will happen again because you become comfortable with the situation.

So who wins, The Baby Mama or Wifey? it is really hard to say, and i thin it depends on the person and the situation. Just remember to always take care of yerself and make sure that,who ever the guy is that he is special enough for you to become his wife or the mother of his Big Headed Babies.
Until Next Time
XOXOXO Rawwr